Same Sex Relationships vs. Parenting

 Hey Y'all,

Though I am not a regular participant of the "Dark Side" currently, I still belong to the Alphabet Mafia! 🌈Go Team Go!!🌈 But with that being said, I never see these questions openly discussed or genuinely discussed. 

Do you find it difficult to create relationships with others of the same sex,  after having the child prior to your current situation, with the opposite sex?

Is it ever an issue if you break up with someone of the same sex, and there are legal ties to the child between the two of you? 

Is co parenting with someone of the same sex, more or less difficult than co-parenting with someone of the opposite sex? 

MOM's Only

 What are some things that riffle your feathers, when you hear other's speak on bad stigma situations? 

For example, 

I cannot stand when someone looks at another mother and say, "I could never be her, walking with (x) amount of kids!" For me....1...you don't know the situation or circumstances, 2. Who are you to cast assumptions or judgement, and 3. What can or ARE you going to do to help fix the situation you are speaking so freely upon?" 

Specifically for women, but all are welcome to comment, share, and relate!!!!

Race/Gender Inequality

 Hey Yall! 

If you haven't figured it out by now, I am as real and as blunt as they come. But I'm also very open to talking about the things that are being walked around, swept under the rug, or completely ignored. 

SOOOOOOO, let's talk about it. 

What is your position on gender inequality? In the professional field? 

What is your opinion on sexual orientation? 

IS there a such thing as being gender biased? 

What are some of your experiences? 

Have you ever been racially profiled? 

Have you ever been discriminated against, for what you wear, how you talk, who you associate with? 

Does the immediate society around you influence the negative outlook on anything directly affecting you, or your lifestyle choices? 

Let's keep it real! I wanna hear fro you! 

Depression

 Hey Guys!  

I hope this finds you all in good spirits and having many of blessings! 

I have a question fr yall? Is anyone else battling depression right now? Is anyone else just not feeling it, period, point blank. No motivation to do anything? 

I often try to rationalize, or simply even just put into perspective, why I am going through what I am going through. Why is everything bad thrown at me, to figure out how to get through. Why do i have to smile, and DEAL? Why do I have to be the realistic one? Why am I the one who has to endure the responsibilities, and everyone else is allowed to go off and be free to do whatever they please, whenever they so choose to do so? Why am I the one who has to defend myself when all I want o do is disappear!? 

It is so much easier not to care, not to put forth effort, or to even just let sit go. It is so much easier to not give energy, when it is required. 

I'm so tired of yelling, screaming, crying, stressing, and I'm completely over feeling trapped in this world. Like seriously. HELP!!!!!!!!!!

I am so tired of being the one EVERYONE relies on to think for, speak for, and do for them but when the shoe is on the other foot, not even a phone call, well check, or inkling of concern floats my way, unless something is required of me, or from me. I'm tired of being the go to person for advice. I'm tired of being the STRONG parent. I'm tired of being the ONLY one who gives a flying rats ass about shit.....and unhappy because I'm the one who gives the MOST< to get very little, if ANYTHING, in return. 

This shit is not healthy, and I'm tired of pretending. I'm tired of everything. I'm TIRED. 

Actively Dealing with Covid

 Hey guys! 

SO.........I just wanted to come and let you guys know that I will try to get back to posting more content as soon as I can, but I am currently, and unfortunately, dealing with COVID-19. As someone who takes all necessary precautions, and follows guidelines(as best as possible, lets face it....I am NOT perfect), I did my best to avoid this crap. And it has been REAL ROUGH!!!!!!!! Especially dealing with two small kids under 5! This is as real as it gets! My house is a mess, my laundry is tremendously piled up, and my nerves are shot! I find myself extremely winded, chest still on fire,  Walking up the stairs, to my house, & in my house, is a whole task, but I do it. Honestly, I wish I could catch more than two hours of uninterrupted sleep, but I cannot. (Damn kids sleep in the bed with me when I am sick) I wish I did not have little to no energy for anything; but, for them, (my babies), and all of you, I am trying my best everyday, to get over this. 

Please send lots of prayers up for me. I've conquered a week. Still have another week to go.!!!!!