Before loving someone else, give yourself a chance to heal. You'll be immensely surprised. Learn to enjoy the surprises and pleasures of the world, no matter how small or minute they may seem. Just open your heart, and trust the process. Begin to believe again.
Understand and grasp that love is battle, or a war from within. and sometime you may NOT win. Ask yourself how can you love someone, or allow someone to love you, when you will not grasp the basic concepts of pride and humility? How do you expect someone to love and accept you for who you are or what you'r about if you cannot accept you, in your own glow, being comfortable in your own skin?
Be true to yourself, and honest with others. Allow the magic to create that comfortable space around you hat can and will draw in what you seek. I promise you, in the end, you'll be satisfied!!!!