Has anyone ever stopped and took a moment to understand the actual definition of love? Does anyone know how to show or display real unconditional love? Do you comprehend the difference between intentional love, and unconditional love?
Love has no sense of direction. Love has no agenda. Love has no time limit, sense of direction, no point of origin, unless it ]is manifested, cured, navigated, and executed. Love is work. Love is supposed to be everything you as an individual, depict it to be.It can be kind, giving, rational, emotionally in tune, efficient, short term, long term, temporary, unstable, insecure.....but above it all, love is supposed to be UNCONDITIONAL Love is supposed to be rooted into a foundation created by two people and built correctly, surviving any and all storms of life, from outsiders, and he negativity life can bestow upon it.
Do you know the difference from loving someone, to being IN love with someone? Can you recall how many times you THOUGHT you were in love? Do you remember all the pain you experienced from former relationships? Have you learned anything from ANY of your relationships?
THE question to be asked, however, is: Have I ever been IN love?
Answer: I have been in love twice, in my lifetime. I have loved abundantly over time, in other situations, short lived, and semi-long term. But, in all honesty, I have lost them to a great deal of personal sabotage, selfishness, and instability. They are like day and night in comparison; sometimes with some of the same qualities, other times, completely polar opposites. One being a male, the other a female. Does that make me bisexual? No. I have chosen to stay active on the #Darkside of life, for my own personal reasons, that I shall disclose at a later time.
Loving each of them was an experience. I love extremely hard. I have come to find that I love, unconditionally. For some reason though, my love is hard to recieve. My love language, is also misperceived. It is more often misunderstood, taken advantage of, sacrificed, or completely and utterly destroyed. For a while, I believed that I was unable to give or receive it. Then I realized, that I had regain control, and redistribute it where it was needed most.
It's okay to question yourself, along the road to bliss. It is also okay to not have all the right answers. But it isn't okay to be neglected, misused, depreciated, undervalued, taken advantage of, lied to, lied on, used, mentally, emotionally or verbally abused. It is not okay to be played, cheated on repeatedly,